Katrina Carefoot blogs at ficklefeline.ca. She is an Autism advocate, and is documenting her Autistic son Max's journey for a book she is writing on how to achieve a best outcome through early intervention and intensive therapy.
10 Ways to Make the Holidays Fun For Your Child With Autism
Everyone has hopes and dreams for how the holidays will turn out. There are traditions we want to carry on with our own families and friends. But what if a child of autism is included in the mix? How do you make sure you find a balance between maintaining a festive spirit while also respecting his needs? Here are 10 tips what will help make your holidays a success.
By KATRINA CAREFOOT
-
Talk About the Holidays
Do this before they arrive to help prepare your child. Read stories, look at photos of people who will be visiting and point out decorations in stores. This way, there won’t be a huge shock when a tree appears in your living room.
iStock -
Dial Everything Back
The Christmas music doesn’t need to be blaring, the tree lights don’t need to flash, and save that “Ho Ho Ho” doorbell for another year.
iStock -
Relax
While the holidays are stressful, if you relax this will help your child stay calm as well. Your child doesn’t care if your home is decorated perfectly or if you found just the right gift for your mother-in-law.
Masterfile -
Involve Your Child
Set up activities you know your child can be successful at. Have him hang a few ornaments, cut out a few cookies, or put a bow on a present. If he shows interest in doing more, then fantastic, and if not, that’s OK too!
Masterfile -
Go Light on the Scheduling
A sure-fire way to set any child up for a meltdown is to pack the day with non-stop activities from morning until night. For a child with autism, this is a recipe for disaster. Build breaks into the day and pace yourself.
iStock -
Understand Your Child’s Sensory Needs
And respond accordingly. My son loves to pet the Christmas tree. This year we are leaving a part of the tree undecorated so that he can touch it to his heart’s content.
Masterfile -
Put Thought into the Gifts you Get Your Child
Make sure they are things your child will really like (not just something you wish he would like). Give friends and relatives ideas on what to give your child as well. (Check out our Toys For Kids with Autism: Top 10 Mom and Kid-Approved Picks for some great ideas!)
Masterfile -
Understand
Even though your child may not be fully participating in activities, he is still taking it all in and 100% present. His joy may not mirror your joy, but that doesn’t mean he isn’t happy.
Masterfile -
Let Your Child Retreat
If your child gets overstimulated or simply needs down time, let him have it. You'll both be thankful later.
iStock -
Celebrate the Wins!
At the end of the day, view your child’s experience as a success. There will be progress and setbacks, but every year you will inch forward and reach new milestones. These are worth celebrating!
For more holiday inspiration, check out our HOLIDAILY section!
Read More:
Social Media 'A Lifeline' For Moms of Kids With Special Needs
Wish We'd Known: Things No One Told Us About Kids With ADHD
Autism & Public School: How One Mom is Making it Work
Masterfile
Chime in